Confused
Staying home during the weekend makes me live in boredom. Where is your husband?? He suppose to be with you all the time. Oh..how should I answer that? I also not sure whether it’s my fault or his. We are married but not staying together like the others.
I always wanted to be with him. The first 3 to 4 months is not a problem for me to go back to his hometown every week. I don’t see any changes. Maybe I pampered him too much. He’s not suppose to be like that.. As a husband, you need to take care of your wife.
I don’t want to quit my job because I’m the one who take care of myself, not you! You cannot force me to quit. What will I get if I quit? What’s in it for me?? You cannot even prove me that you can fulfill the needs. I don’t want you to give me everything that I want, I just want everything that we need.
Things get harder for us. It’s not that I don’t want to talk to you. I just can’t stand the way you treat me. Even it is on the phone. Grumbler.
Sometimes, whenever I am alone, I keep on thinking about my future, my marriage, my family and myself. Should I leave him or should I give him another chance? I can take care of myself, but still I need somebody, someone to talk to, to share my thought, to love and be loved.
Unity
Why do people marry? What marriage can offer them?
In Islam, marriage is the only possible way the sexes can unite. Communication, intimacy and companionship are three of the big draws to a permanent relationship. The warmth of knowing that someone cares and will be there to listen is a common pull to settle down and marry. One could choose to live in sin, however by choosing marriage one is displaying obedience to Allah.
It’s not about sex only, it’s about everything. Both parties need to understand the rights that each spouse has upon each other. One of the greatest rights of the wife upon her husband is that he provides for her, and his spending and providing for her is considered Islamically to be one of the best way that he could spend in charity. This include food, drinks, house, cloth and anything else a wife might need to maintain her strength and live a normal life.
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Peace.
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